Instead of Having Sex

Let's say that you have decided to choose abstinence. Now what do you do? Are you not supposed to have a life? What about a boyfriend or girlfriend?

The thing is, abstinence makes so many things possible! Here are some things that you can do if you are choosing to not have sex.

• Finish your education
• Prepare for a career.
• Have fun with friends.
• Play sports
• Have money to spend on fun stuff
• Be proud of yourself.
• PURSUE YOUR DREAMS

With abstinence, where there's a will, there's a way.

Dating can still be on your radar screen if you are abstinent.

WHEN YOU GO OUT ON A DATE there are a lot of fun things to do instead of having sex. Be creative!

Talk, go to a movie, find similar hobbies, get to know each other, hang out with friends, volunteer together, just to name a few.

Abstinence gives you a chance to learn about healthy relationships in a safe way. You will have time to learn what you want and don't want in a relationship. Intimacy and healthy relationships are about a lot more than having sex.

Express your love, but stick with your limits.

BUILD A FRIENDSHIP...SHOW YOU CARE...DON'T CONFUSE SEX WITH LOVE.